10 TYPES OF SEDUCERS: WHICH ONE ARE YOU?

Have you ever asked yourself a question: why, at times, so different personalities are so attracted to each other?Each person needs to think about what characteristics a good seducer should have in order to captivate him personally.And also, what qualities you need to cultivate in yourself in order to become more attractive and interest exactly those who like you.And, perhaps, you are already a very charismatic person, but you do not even suspect this and unfairly squander your talent.Whatever it was, it is necessary to consider the art of seduction from the inside in order to understand yourself and determine your type of seducer.

In The Art of Seduction, psychologist Robert Green describes the existence of nine archetypes of seducers, which he does not divide by gender, that is, men and women fall under the general classification of the scientist.Therefore, if Robert gives an example of a famous man in history who, in his opinion, fits a particular archetype, this does not mean that a woman cannot belong to the same group.

If we add the figure of the anti-seducer to this list, then we get a 10-point guide, under which you can safely try on your image.In this article, you will find a historical and psychological analysis of the great personalities of mankind, as well as analyze which archetype of the seducer you personally belong to.

1. Siren

Inaccessible, divine, charming personality.In any company, she is so alone.A close, but at the same time, distant, very sweet, and dear image.Siren is the muse of poets, which makes rulers lose their heads and chop them off to her ill-wishers.Alexandra Anastasia Lisowskawas one of them.The modern Siren can be detected by her gestures, delicacy, manner of dress, similar to that of the goddesses.

2. Queen

A person who can make every minute in the life of a person who loves her unique.Among the different types of seducers, the image of the domineering Queen never goes out of style.Transgressive and self-confident, she knows that her charm comes from the very depths of her primal instincts.

If you live on the edge, losing sight of all the rules for adrenaline to flow through your body, then you are one of them.Queens know how to kiss a man, keeping him at a safe distance.When a man looks at her, he simply drowns and dissolves in her spell.She is able to make a man do all the crazy things in the world that he previously could not even imagine.Anne Boleynbelonged to this type.

3. The perfect lover

An expert in the art of love, he will make every woman feel comfortable and desired, next to him.This man is able to seduce even the most demanding woman.He always knows what to say, but above all, he knows how to listen.The ideal lover seems ideal from any side: he is ready to please his chosen one with his best culinary skills, to give an expensive piece of jewelry, to show the most unforgettable landscape.

But usually, such experts have only a sports interest in women and the rule is to spend the night with each female representative no more than once.Therefore, you should not hope for a long-term serious relationship, his strong point is to give you new emotions of fleeting happiness.The most prominent representative of this category is the Spaniard Don Miguel de Manyara, the prototype of Don Juan.Historically known

4. Dandy

An elegant, ironic, courageous archetype that gives freedom and self-confidence to the woman next to him.He pays a lot of attention to his appearance, manners, speech, and gestures.This is one of the most dynamic and unpredictable types of seducers.He plays with his masculinity and your femininity.

You can never tell what is on his mind or what has changed.These people skillfully use their attractive appearance, as Sirena does.They have mastered the social skills perfectly in order to become the perfect lover.But when you decide that you have understood it and will be able to influence it, it will simply disappear.Therefore, do not try to understand this person, so as not to get confused even more.Robert Green believes that Rudolfo Valentino was one of the most notable Dandies in history.

5. Candide or Optimist

He is always a naive and playful boy.Society could not tame him and land him.One of these was the great Mozart.Such people do difficult things with ease, and everything seems like a game to them.

Candide has a harmless baby charm and a subversive rogue charm.Women are attracted to him, like a magnet, on an unconscious level.It is impossible to be angry with him because he himself does not harbor anger at anyone.

6. Coquette

This archetype is attributed to girls who love and know how to flirt.She can leave and then return.Cancel all appointments, and then show up at the most unexpected moment.

This is the woman who is always late for appointments.And, the more she attracts the attention of men, the less interesting they become for her.The one who begins to persecute her will lose sight of her, and the one who tries to ignore her will despair and will never forgive himself for this.One of the most famous representatives of this archetype is Marilyn Monroe.

7. Gentleman

This is the kind of person who is able to seduce you without sexual connotation or a hint of intimacy.He will give you what you want without asking for anything in return.He will flatter you and give you a sense of comfort.Next to him, you will always be calm and confident.

The sorcerer will not do or say anything that, in the future, can compromise him.At first, it may seem that sex does not interest him at all, but you feel that they will always listen to you, understand, and help you in a difficult situation.At some point in time, the thought will come to you that you are just friends.But the truth is if you are asking yourself this question, then most likely you have already fallen into his net.

8. Charismatic seducer

This seducer is always in the spotlight.Everyone wants to be around because they are a source of laughter and fun.Nobody gets bored next to him.He is easy to spot because there are always a lot of people around him at parties listening and laughing at his jokes.

It’s always safe and comfortable in his company.He is able to inspire the people around him.Such people become not only great seducers but also outstanding politicians, humorists, storytellers, since they master the art of communication better than others.They are endowed with qualities that others do not have.

9. Star

Attractive and stylish personality.She has a life that others do not.This is the celebrity archetype.Her unique and unusual life is extremely attractive to those around her.The life of this man is eccentric, and he himself is used to surprise and delight.With him or her, you will visit places where ordinary people are not allowed.

But remember that not everything in the life of a Star is associated with luxury, celebrities are as passionate about their lives and their talents as mere mortals.Being close to him will make you escape from the mundane, but not always get rid of the vulgar.The star will make you experience the endless number of new experiences that only he has to offer you.The Star archetype is synonymous with glamor.

These are the archetypes that Robert Green defines in his treatise The Art of Seduction.Analyze, perhaps you belong to one of them.But, if not, then there is a very high probability that your archetype is at number 10.

10. Anti-seducer

Insecure, selfish, not very empathetic, even repulsive person.These people don’t know how to communicate.They are angry at the whole world.They have little or no social skills.They are unaware of their uniqueness and the need for society.They are uncomfortable: they speak when they shouldn’t, and are silent when they need to speak.Anti-seducers are too self-confident, or, conversely, completely insecure.

Knowledge of seduction techniques or tricks is not enough to become as attractive as the heroes of the hottestsex scenes…Sometimes self-discovery is key to getting to know your strengths and how they can work to your advantage.We can all be great seducers, we just need to find that inner light that fuels our charisma and makes us gain self-confidence and self-esteem.As one of history’s greatest seducers, Oscar Wilde said, “Loving yourself is the beginning of an adventure that lasts a lifetime.”

Therefore, let’s take a closer look at the 10 archetypes of seducers in order to stop thinking that beautiful seduction can only be seen inmoviesand start this path to self-knowledge and personal development.